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Life Lessons From Unexpected Sources: Why Entrepreneurship Isn’t For Everybody
Her resilience made me reevaluate my own will. As an entrepreneur, I’ve faced my share of setbacks—moments when I questioned if I had what it took, when the road ahead felt too uncertain. But every time I thought about giving up, I’d remember her—pushing forward, step by step, even when it felt impossible. It’s a lesson I carry into everything I do now.
Don’t Panic. 3 Things That Might Help You Regain Control When You Feel Overwhelmed
The first time I can recall having what I eventually learned was a panic attack; I felt disappointed in myself for not being in control. It was July of 2021, and everything I believed about myself was questioned. I checked my accounts and realized I lost more money than before. I needed to find a therapist, finalize an attorney, and I could feel something else was on the horizon. My life was not going as planned.
Your Life Isn’t Going To Be All Sunshine.
As much as we want everything to unfold perfectly, that’s never how it works. Your ability to accept this will determine how well you adapt when things go awry. Oftentimes, you can make it much harder on yourself than necessary, especially when you refuse to accept your role in the events that lead you to disarray.
The Crucial Role of Discipline in Your Journey
When confusion sets in, it's a signal—not a setback. It’s a prompt to push deeper into learning. How much do you know about the things that are crucial to your progress? Every moment of uncertainty is an opportunity to expand your knowledge.
You Must Be Prepared To Pivot At All Times
How do you respond when things don't go according to plan? Do you allow these incidents to define your day, or do you find a way to pivot, to redirect your energy towards something just as productive?
Don’t Fight The Battle Alone: Why Prioritizing Your Mental Health Is Imperative
As the article suggests, “about 49,500 people took their own lives last year in the U.S., the highest number ever,” and that should be an alarming statistic. That is more than 135 people per day, which equates to nearly 6 people per hour or ~1 person every 10 minutes
A Beginner’s Guide To Checking On Your Strong Friend
Ever wonder how your strong friend is keeping it together when there is so much going on? Despite how tough things appear to be, they continue to be there for others. They’re optimistic. They bring smiles to everyone else’s face when they’re around. They know all the right things to say to help others feel better. You know your strong friend has their own battles, but you’re not exactly sure how to approach being there for them.
A Black Man’s Guide To Therapy . . . Just Do It
I should have begun therapy long before I ever did, but I grew up with the misguided belief it meant I was weak and couldn’t handle the rollercoaster of this life like a man should be able to. I was foolish. With the amount of weight I carried, there’s no wonder I eventually fell apart the way I did.
How To Save Yourself From Suffering
Every time it has ever felt like I didn’t have anything left, I fought with everything to prove otherwise. I have enough experience to know the power that lies within. I said to myself, I wish I had all of the answers to each of these tests. God quickly responded and said, “You do.”
I Don’t Want To Be Here Anymore
The past several years felt like a waste and I didn’t want to lose any more — no more loss of people I love and no more lost time. I had to keep my foot on the gas 24/7. I didn’t realize it until later, but I was running away from loss. My therapist brought it up. My dad called it out. My mentor reminded me. I was so afraid of facing loss again that I packed my days in an effort to avoid it. When I found myself staring at it again, I hit a wall so hard that placed me in quicksand. The words escaped my lips yet again, “I don’t want to be here anymore.” It felt like I was drowning and I had no idea what to do next.
Don’t Wait To Plant The Seeds
“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time to plant one is right now.”
I have been sitting with this quote for the past week now, because it speaks to the growth process and the importance of this moment. We can spend a lot of time worrying about what we failed to do yesterday, but often need to remind ourselves of how much power exists in being present.
You Don’t Have All The Answers
You’re the one.
That’s what I’ve heard all of my life. You’re the one. Can you imagine how frustrating it is when everyone else says that and life is kicking your ass? That’s part of my story. I’m not sharing this to be a braggart or to boast. I’ve heard it over and again. Candidly, it’s one of the many reasons I hid myself from judgement. It can become extremely uncomfortable when others have high expectations of you
It’s Gonna Hurt, But It Won’t Kill You
At some point in your life, you’ll come across a situation that challenges everything you believe about the world. When you face that crossroads, there is always a huge lesson that is meant to shape how you move forward.
I Almost Gave Up, But . . .
You ever hear that you don’t know what’s hiding behind a smile? I can tell you . . . I hid a lot behind mine. It’s not a badge of honor. I just figured that is what I was supposed to do. Asking for help was a sign of weakness. I wish I would have known better a lot sooner.
I Prayed About It
The pain of wishing I was able to do more for everyone hasn’t gone away. I’ve just grown accustomed to the idea that this is the way things are — at least for now.
Somebody Loves You
I spent a lot of time being upset with God about all of this. I spent a lot of time being upset with myself. Birthdays, holidays, the days my brothers passed etc. all bring emotions to the surface that I’m never sure how I’m going to handle.
Another Day Might Be Too Long
I am not here to tell you everything you’re after comes to you immediately. Instant gratification is not what we’re after, but we can certainly change our lives for the better one day at at time.
You Don’t Have Time To Waste
Someone stated to me in a recent conversation that they believe I’m unwilling to take a break, because I’m afraid to lose something else. The statement caught me off guard, because there is truth to it. Life can be pretty unforgiving and I have been in a space where I wasn’t happy with the results. It’s not fun. Taking a step back and looking at the bigger picture, I’m heavily invested in my growth though.
You Cannot Run Anymore. It’s Time To Answer The Call…
One promise I made to myself is to continue learning and this year has been full of lessons. At the top of the list is . . . life comes at you fast. I stumbled upon a masterclass in resilience and I continue to gain more insight on the topic every day. Although I cannot go as far as saying the lessons have been fun, it is abundantly clear to me the experiences serve a greater purpose. I have been unknowingly preparing for this moment my entire life.